Just the Way You Are.

October 19, 2016

 

 

I had a kid today who said she was “a bad drawer”.

 

Say what?

 

She was seven.

 

How can you be a bad anything at seven? You’ve hardly had time to blink.

 

The kid and I looked at paintings on my iPhone of Diebenkorn and Picasso and Georgia O’Keefe and I told her that great art doesn’t have to look realistic. Often the most interesting art is anything but.

 

“It’s about how you feel when you do it,” I told her. “Forget about the look of it.”

 

And quite honestly - she’s seven. No matter what she produces, it is unlikely going to be considered for MoMA. Though when I see an exhibition of a white box with a hole in it, or a “sculpture” of a vacuum cleaner or some other gadget, I do wonder why-the-hell-not?  

 

I failed gym class when I was six because I couldn’t do a roly-poly. I clearly remember my mother storming around the kitchen muttering: “How can you fail a six year old!” (Comment not a question) "How ridiculous!" She then marched into school and hotly demanded that retrospectively I be awarded a pass.

 

For years I didn’t know why she had forced them to make me pass. In my world, I didn’t even know what a fail meant ...!

 

But I get it now. And when I see these brilliant and blossoming children become weighed down by limitations or lack of confidence.. or the ever lurking fear of failure.. – my fierce internal mama bear goes wild to protect them from the preconditioned programming of the adult world already influencing their own, malleable minds.

 

Because these kids are perfect: Drawing outside the lines, and creating indecipherable shapes, exploring colors that clash. 

 

A++ 

 

Just the way they are.

 

 

 

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I’m Lucie, founder of Mischievous Goddess. I'm not yet a mom or an auntie and do not have hands-on experience in either of these roles. I was however a child once myself. I’m also trying to have a baby after a miscarriage. I work with kids on a regular basis and for many a year babysat kids of all ages. This was written to entertain and shine a light on subjects that are dear to my heart and to inspire all children to be wild, free, and most importantly themselves. I am not a childcare expert, or a certified teacher or nanny, or psychiatrist. All views expressed are my own. 
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